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Blindspots in Restorative

6th October 2026
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In this month's instalment of our Dark Side of Strengths series, we're exploring how Restorative can move from being a superpower to becoming exhausting. And never forget, of course, that your Restorative will show up differently to others’ based on your other leading CliftonStrengths. And if you’re curious how your Restorative might show up and frustrate others, read our white paper on conflict and communication.

Introduction to Restorative

The power of leveraging individual CliftonStrengths to enhance personal and professional success cannot be underestimated. However each CliftonStrength comes with their own set of blindspots. Triggered by discussions in recent workshops, I’m gong to focus on BLINDSPOTS, and to get started thought I’d start with Restorative, because a recent cohort of 126 participants 48% of participants had it in their Top 5. Imagine, in one session there was a whole room full of problem finders, fixers, and perfectionists! In this blog, we’ll explore the dynamics of CliftonStrengths and shed light on potential blindspots, specifically honing in on the Restorative strength. We’ll discuss examples of how Restorative blindspots may manifest and offer insights into partnering with other CliftonStrengths to create a HARMONIOUS and PRODUCTIVE approach. Afterall, Restorative is an executing theme. And bad team vibes would not lie well with it. Creating another problem.

It’s the strength that says:

“Let’s figure out what’s gone wrong – or not right – and fix it.”

Remember. Not every problem requires your intervention.

Understanding Restorative:

Restorative is a strength characterized by the ability to solve problems and find solutions, often thriving in crisis situations. Individuals with high Restorative talents possess a natural inclination to identify and fix problems, bringing a sense of order and resolution to chaos. While this strength is undoubtedly valuable, it can lead to blindspots when overemphasized or misapplied.

The gift of Restorative

  • While many people can identify that something is wrong, Restorative is motivated to do something about it. The gift of Restorative is transformation.

At its best, Restorative brings:

    • Problem-solving: quickly identifying causes rather than symptoms.
    • Resilience: remaining calm when others feel overwhelmed.
    • Improvement: finding ways to make things work better.
    • Practicality: focusing on solutions, not endless discussion.
    • Recovery: helping people, projects and teams get back on track.

I often see Restorative shine in engineering environments. People with Restorative are drawn to places that demand problem solving when a system fails, a process breaks, or maybe a customer escalates an issue.

Most people see disruption, but those with high Restorative see something worth investigating, understanding, and improving. It is the strength that sparks the question in your head:

“How do we make this better?“

Innately, you have the capability to restore confidence, rebuild trust, and solve difficult problems. The world, and every team, needs you.

But every strength has a shadow.

The dark side of Restorative

Responsibility

The challenge with your Restorative talent is that it triggers you  almost permanently to focus on what’s wrong. When your attention instinctively moves towards problems, it becomes easy to overlook what is already working. You could become the person who always sees the negative.

You can also easily become the person everyone brings their issues to. And soon you’re carrying a weight of problems, half of which were never yours to own. This blog was the first ‘dark side’ in the series, that started in 2023! So we’ve updated it and reworked it to identify 5 challenges. Which have you encountered? 

Challenge 1: Seeing problems everywhere

The gift of Restorative is noticing what needs attention. The downside is noticing it all the time.

    • You walk into a meeting and immediately see the process flaw.
    • You review a report and spot the risks.
    • You join a project and identify fifteen improvements before anyone has discussed what is already going well.

Others may see opportunities. You see vulnerabilities.

Over time this can create fatigue, both for you and the people around you.

Sometimes a team needs improvement. Sometimes they need encouragement.

The Jedi shift

Ask yourself:

“What is working well that we should preserve?”

Before identifying a problem, identify a success. Balance creates credibility.

And like many engineering teams, having a trouble shooting list, and recording the urgency level of addressing it and potential impact helps everyone know what could be done and what needs to be done.

Challenge 2: Becoming the team fixer

People quickly learn that Restorative means you are capable and can solve problems. The result? Every issue finds its way to you.

Before long, you become the unofficial troubleshooter for everyone else’s challenges. And while at first this feels rewarding, eventually it becomes tedious. Because the danger is that others start depending on your expertise rather than developing their own capability.

The result: You become indispensable. And exhausted.

Jedi shift

Move from solving to coaching. Instead of: “Here’s how I’d fix it.”

Try: “What options have you already considered?”

Helping others develop their own problem-solving capability creates far more long-term value. And boosts confidence among your colleagues.

Challenge 3: Fixing people who haven't asked for help

This is the fine line between helping and interfering.

This one catches many people by surprise. Restorative often sees potential. You can see exactly what would help a colleague, partner, or indeed friend move forward. And this can depend on your other top CliftonStrengths.

The problem? They may not want fixing. Or they may not be ready. If you find your Restorative is supported by a group of the blue, Relationship Building Domain themes, beware of this, and if you also have high Empathy, be doubly cautious!

Your good intentions can accidentally become unsolicited advice. And while your intention is that it feels supportive, on the receiving end, it may feel critical of them.

You are the one that is the listening ear for strained relations – your Harmony ‘supercharges’ the need to mend disagreements and restore calm. Your Empathy both attracts dissatisfied colleagues and also can over feel their pain.

Jedi shift

Remember: Awareness does not create permission. So before offering solutions, ask:

“Would you like me to listen or help you think through possible solutions?”

That small question can transform relationships and outcomes for both of you.

Challenge 4: Chasing perfection through continuous repair

When improvement becomes obsession to rival Maximiser. And if you have Restorative and Maximiser, seriously watch out for this.

Your Restorative talent is in the Executing Domain. It is driven to do things. And as a result. often struggles to leave things alone. Even when something is functioning adequately, you can see ways to improve it.

Then improve it again.

And again.

The danger is that projects never feel finished. There is always one more optimisation. One more adjustment. One more fix.

At some point improvement becomes a diminishing return.

Jedi shift

Ask: “Is this problem important or merely interesting?”

Not everything requires optimisation.

Sometimes “good enough” is genuinely good enough.

Challenge 5: Carrying other people's problems home

Restorative cares deeply about solving challenges. Unfortunately, the brain doesn’t always switch off. The conversation you had at 10am is still circulating at 10pm.  You replay the issue. Explore possible solutions. Run scenarios. Mentally troubleshoot.

The problem may belong to someone else.

The mental load doesn’t get the memo.

Jedi shift

Create deliberate closure rituals. Write down actions. Capture next steps. Park unresolved issues before finishing work.

Your brain doesn’t need to hold every problem overnight.

Remember… your job is not to fix everything

One of the biggest lessons for people with high Restorative is recognising that your value is not measured by the number of problems you solve.

You’re not responsible for repairing every broken system, process, relationship, or project around you.

    • Some issues belong to other people.
    • Some require patience rather than intervention.
    • Some are simply outside your control.

The goal is not to fix everything.

The goal is to bring your problem-solving gift where it adds the greatest value.

Wisdom is knowing which problems deserve your energy.

Reflection questions: a moment for honest inventory

Take time this week to consider:

    • Which problems am I carrying that don’t belong to me?
    • Where am I focusing on faults instead of strengths?
    • Who am I rescuing instead of coaching?
    • What am I trying to perfect that is already good enough?
    • What would happen if I solved one less problem this week?

Double jeopardy - two strengths are in their blindspot zones

twister

How might Restorative and Intellection cause each other a challenge?

Under pressure, this partnership can become focused on solving immediate problems, making longer-term thinking and deep analysis more difficult. If these themes are in your Top 10:

    • Develop reflective habits such as journaling.
    • Partner with people strong in Strategic or Context.
    • Seek intellectual discussion and fresh perspectives.
    • Use structured approaches to break down problems.
    • Engage diverse viewpoints to strengthen solutions.

Final thought

The world needs your Restorative talents. It needs people who can remain calm when systems fail, projects derail and challenges emerge. It needs people who can bring order to complexity and solutions to uncertainty. Leaders who remain calm in a crisis – at what ever level of seniority.

The true power of Restorative isn’t solving every problem. It’s choosing the right problems. The Jedi side of Restorative recognises that strength is not found in fixing everything. It’s found in knowing where your energy will create the greatest impact.

Because sometimes the most powerful solution is not repairing what’s broken.

It’s recognising that some things are strong enough already. And my Restorative heavy workshop? We worked together to help them see the power of choosing the problems to work on. 

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The Dark-side of Responsibility

31st August 2026
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Responsibility

When the Strength Becomes the Burden  Responsibility is often celebrated as the strength of dependability, commitment and trust. People high in Responsibility are the colleagues who follow through, keep their promises and can be relied upon when things get difficult. Responsibility is my number six CliftonStrength, and probably my Achilles heel. Give…

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Relator: The Dark Side of Strengths

30th July 2026
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CANVA Relator

Relator® is often described as the strength of deep relationships. People high in Relator value trust, authenticity and meaningful connection. At its best, Relator creates loyalty, belonging and psychological safety. At its worst, it can unintentionally create exclusion, blind spots and resistance to new perspectives.   I don’t need hundreds of connections. I just need…

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Positivity: The dark side of seeing how wonderful everything is (and how to lead with it) 

14th May 2026
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Positivity

At its best, Positivity brings a kind of warmth that changes the feel of everything. It lifts the tone in a room, helping people keep going when things feel heavy, and spotting possibility just when others are losing sight of it. It’s as quick to notice progress as it is outcomes, building connection through genuine encouragement and energy. This is the glue in hard moments—and the spark when things start to feel flat. 

The way Positivity shows up was captured brilliantly by two postdoctoral fellows I was having a coffee with. One of them had just come back from visiting her new university, and she was describing how wonderful it all was—how lovely the people were, how welcoming everything felt. Her colleague just laughed and said, “You think everywhere is wonderful because people see how wonderful you are.” He went on to explain: “You walk into a coffee shop and the barista says, ‘Your usual?’ I’ve been going to the same place, with the same person, for a year—and when he sees me, he just says, ‘What do you want?’” Then she added, “You’re like the Queen who thinks everywhere smells of fresh paint. Everywhere you go, the sun shines—and people shine on you, because you shine.  

Positivity brings energy, lift, and lightness. It helps teams move through difficulty, keeps momentum alive, and reminds people why their work matters. 

At its best, it’s contagious in the right way. 

But like every strength, when it shows up at the wrong moment, is overplayed or under pressure, Positivity has a shadow. 

And it’s often quieter—and more costly—than people realise. If you want the formal Gallup definition of Positivity, you can explore it here:  
https://www.gallup.com/cliftonstrengths/en/253915/positivity-theme.aspx 

(And if you haven’t already, you can read the wider context of this series here: 
👉 https://katalytik.co.uk/the-dark-side-of-cliftonstrengths/) 

What happens when Harmony becomes a liability for its host? When it goes to the darkside?

The truth is, many, many Harmony-high people dislike conflict. For more depth on conflict read the Katalytik Whitepaper on Conflict and Communication and access our insights on how you can interact more effectively with some CliftonStrengths when you understand their drivers and style. A useful reference on blindspots can be found here.

How you can be affected when you have high Positivity  

When you lead with high Positivity, you’ll be the one who feels it most when the emotional tone around you starts to dip. Heavy, critical or draining environments can feel disproportionately hard for you to sit in—especially when conversations get stuck in problems with no movement.  

If negativity dominates, effort can go unrecognised, or setbacks begin to take the energy out of the group, so you’ll notice your internal pressure rising. And often, without quite deciding to, you take on the role of lifting everyone—feeling responsible for keeping things moving, keeping spirits up, and stopping the whole thing from sliding further. Or you may feel claustrophobic and leave. 

When the dark side shows up 

It seems conflicting, but positivity can tip over into something less helpful. A client I was coaching found it hard to access gravitas because her Positivity was so strong. She found this caused difficult conversations hard. Mostly, she avoided them altogether. Other ways it can cause you a challenge:  
• you may tend to frame real problems too quickly into “it’ll be fine” 
• you push yourself (and others) to stay upbeat when it’s not authentic 
• people feel unheard because their frustration or concern gets bypassed by you 
• internally you are driven to “stay positive” rather than be real 
• ultimately you cam end up carrying the emotional load for everyone else 

And underneath it? Is often fatigue. Because being the energy in the room, all the time, is a heavy lift. 

And so you sink to being the opposite of your natural, innate self. 

Let’s reframe what’s really going on 

Your Positivity isn’t ignoring reality, it’s energising it. But when things get tense and you are under strain, Positivity can slip into energy as avoidance 

Instead of  “Let’s face this and move forward” 

It becomes “Let’s not sit in this too long—let’s move on” 

The intention is still good. The impact? People can feel dismissed, rushed, or even silenced. 

 

The impact of your Positivity on others 

When your Positivity is overplayed, others can experience you as: 
• not fully listening 
• brushing past important issues 
• minimising legitimate concerns 
• impatient with anything “too negative” 
• hard to be honest with 

Ironically, this is often the opposite of what you’re trying to create.

Strategies  Positivity back into Jedi mode 

This isn’t about dialling your Positivity down—it’s about directing it with intent. When it’s well-aimed, Positivity becomes a force for movement, not avoidance. A few small shifts make a disproportionate difference: 

  1. Let reality land first – pause. 
    Hold the space before you lift it. When people feel what’s true has been seen, they’re far more ready to move. 
  2. Name the hard thing before the hopeful thing 
    Trust is built in that order. Acknowledge what’s difficult, then your optimism has somewhere solid to land. Name the elephant in the room, see it, say it. 
  3. Stop carrying the emotional load for everyone 
    Your role isn’t to rescue the mood. Bring your energy but leave space for others to own theirs. 
  4. Use Positivity to move through, not away from 
    Channel your lightness into progress and action – not into sidestepping what needs to be faced. 
  5. Make room for the full range 
    High-performing teams aren’t relentlessly positive – they’re real. Honesty first. Energy follows. 

I really like this reframe: Positivity isn’t: “Everything’s fine” 

It’s: 

“We can face this—and still move forward” 

And of course, no CliftonStrength exists in isolation. Depending on your own ranked order, you can also interact with others to help you shift toward the Jedi side. 

How Positivity interacts with other CliftonStrengths 

CliftonStrength 

When it works well with Positivity 

When the dark side creeps in 

Strategic 

Keeps the future feeling possible, even when the path is complex 

Brushes past risks too quickly in favour of “it’ll work out” 

Activator 

Creates momentum with energy and optimism 

Rushes into action without fully facing what’s difficult 

Responsibility 

Brings warmth and encouragement to getting things done well 

Carries emotional responsibility for everyone else as well as the task 

Maximiser 

Celebrates progress and lifts standards through encouragement 

Avoids tough feedback to “keep things positive” 

Harmony 

Helps create a calm, supportive environment 

Smooths over conflict instead of addressing it 

Communication 

Engages and energises people with uplifting messages 

Over-spins messages, leaving out the harder truths 

Empathy 

Brings genuine care and emotional connection 

Absorbs and then tries to “fix” others’ feelings too quickly 

Achiever 

Sustains energy over long periods of effort 

Pushes through fatigue with forced positivity 

Relator 

Builds deep, warm connections 

Avoids difficult conversations to protect the relationship 

Some coaching moments 

Take a moment and schedule time to reflect on your positivity. Where might your Positivity be: 
• smoothing over something that needs facing? 
• rushing people to “feel better” before they feel heard? 
• carrying more emotional responsibility than is yours? 

And what would happen if you trusted that truth first, then lift… actually creates more sustainable energy?  

When you find yourself in a tricky meeting moment ask yourself “What hasn’t been said yet that needs to be?” 

Then go there first. 

You might say something like: 

“Before we move on, can we just acknowledge this feels frustrating?” 
or 
“I’m noticing we’re trying to stay upbeat—but I think there’s something important underneath this.” 

Then—and only then—bring your Positivity in: 
 

“So given that… what’s one step we can take from here?” 

That way, your energy builds trust instead of bypassing it. 
You’re not shutting down reality—you’re helping people move through it. 

And finally, in summary 

Positivity is a powerful force. It brings energy, connection, and momentum when it’s needed most. But its dark side it shows up when that energy starts to override honesty—when lifting the mood becomes more important than facing what’s real. 

At its best, Positivity doesn’t deny difficulty. It meets it—and then moves beyond it. 

And that’s the shift: 
 

not “stay positive” 
but 

“be real first—then bring the energy that helps people move forward.” 

 

Some further reading

  1. Focus and its Blindspots
    A great companion piece to Harmony, especially when discussing tunnel vision and conflict avoidance.
    ➤ Read the blog [katalytik.co.uk]
  2. Communication – Strength or Weakness?
    Ideal for discussing how Harmony interacts with communication styles.
    ➤ Read about Communication [katalytik.co.uk]

 

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Maximizer: The dark side of striving for better (and how to lead with it)

14th May 2026
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Maximizer

Maximizer is one of the most deceptively simple CliftonStrengths. People often assume it’s about perfectionism. Tidiness. Gold stars. A sort of relentlessly upbeat “can’t we make this nicer?” energy. But for those high in Maximizer, it’s not cosmetic. It’s existential. For me it supercharges my other themes. It drives each of them harder. It’s the instinct…

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Includer: When Belonging Bottlenecks—Jedi It Back

25th February 2026
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Canva 04 Blog Includer

If you lead with Includer, chances are you’ve been doing this your whole life without even realising it:  • You spot the person hovering at the edge. • You widen the circle so others don’t have to ask. • You notice who’s being overlooked long before anyone else clocks it. • You bring warmth, fairness, and humanity…

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